{"id":8629,"date":"2022-05-31T23:39:12","date_gmt":"2022-05-31T23:39:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nigeriastandardnewspaper.com\/ng\/?p=8629"},"modified":"2022-05-31T23:39:12","modified_gmt":"2022-05-31T23:39:12","slug":"my-wife-refused-to-have-sex-with-me-poured-water-on-me-while-asleep-denied-me-access-to-my-two-children-ran-away-from-home-kalu-ikeagwu-nollywood-actor-in-the-suit-marked-ld-8939hd","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nigeriastandardnewspaper.com\/a\/my-wife-refused-to-have-sex-with-me-poured-water-on-me-while-asleep-denied-me-access-to-my-two-children-ran-away-from-home-kalu-ikeagwu-nollywood-actor-in-the-suit-marked-ld-8939hd\/","title":{"rendered":"My wife refused to have sex with me, poured water on me while asleep, denied me access to my two children; ran away from home       -KALU IKEAGWU, Nollywood Actor \u2026in the suit marked LD\/8939HD\/2021, I am seeking a dissolution of my six-year-old marriage to Ijeoma since I did not give her any infection, my wife accused me of wanting to \u2018sleep\u2019 with my step-daughter    *\u201cTill date, I have not seen any report attached to a document that she lost a baby through STD. Truly, I did not ask her why she lost the baby\u201d *\u2018My wife packed out of the house and sent me a mail that she was on her way to her father\u2019s house in Enugu. I got back home from a trip on Aug. 4, 2021, to find out that my wife had left our matrimonial home with the children to an undisclosed location\u2019 *\u201cI tried to contact her when I got to the house and found it empty. She told me she was at her father\u2019s place in Enugu and four days later, I saw her at the airport in Lagos, heading to God knows where. In the mail she sent, she said she was in Enugu\u201d *BY NNENA OPUKU\/MOVIE Correspondent, Lagos"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>My wife refused to have sex with me, poured water on me while asleep, denied me access to my two children; ran away from home <\/b><b>-KALU IKEAGWU, Nollywood Actor<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>\u2026<\/i><\/b><b><i>in the suit marked LD\/8939HD\/2021, I am seeking a dissolution of my six-year-old marriage to Ijeoma since I did not give her any infection, my wife accused me of wanting to \u2018sleep\u2019 with my step-daughter<\/i><\/b><b><i>\u00a0<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>*\u201cTill date, I have not seen any report attached to a document that she lost a baby through STD. Truly, I did not ask her why she lost the baby\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>*\u2018My wife packed out of the house and sent me a mail that she was on her way to her father\u2019s house in Enugu. I got back home from a trip on Aug. 4, 2021, to find out that my wife had left our matrimonial home with the children to an undisclosed location\u2019<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>*\u201cI tried to contact her when I got to the house and found it empty. She told me she was at her father\u2019s place in Enugu and four days later, I saw her at the airport in Lagos, heading to God knows where. In the mail she sent, she said she was in Enugu\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>*BY NNENA OPUKU\/MOVIE Correspondent, Lagos<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>MATTER seems to have come full circle and confusion looking palpable as a Nigerian Nollywood actor, KALU IKEAGWU has approached an Ikeja High Court to dissolve his marriage to his estranged wife, Ijeoma, claiming she allegedly deserted their matrimonial home and prevented him from gaining access to their two children.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/nigeriastandardnewspaper.com\/a\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/nolly-one.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-8630\" src=\"https:\/\/nigeriastandardnewspaper.com\/ng\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/nolly-one-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/nigeriastandardnewspaper.com\/a\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/nolly-four.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-8631\" src=\"https:\/\/nigeriastandardnewspaper.com\/ng\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/nolly-four-150x150.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/nigeriastandardnewspaper.com\/a\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/nolly-five.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-8632\" src=\"https:\/\/nigeriastandardnewspaper.com\/ng\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/nolly-five-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/nigeriastandardnewspaper.com\/a\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/nolly-six.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-8633\" src=\"https:\/\/nigeriastandardnewspaper.com\/ng\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/05\/nolly-six-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that Ikeagwu, in the suit marked LD\/8939HD\/2021, is seeking a dissolution of his six-year-old marriage to Ijeoma.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The actor is also seeking full custody of his three-year-old son and ten-year-old step-daughter.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Under cross-examination by the respondent\u2019s counsel, Mrs S.I. Amedu, Ikeagwu said his wife packed out of his house and sent him a mail that she was on her way to her father\u2019s house in Enugu.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He, however, said contrary to her claim that he later saw her at the Murtala Mohammed International Airport with the children after some days.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He said: \u201cI got back home from a trip on Aug. 4, 2021, to find out that my wife had left our matrimonial home with the children to an undisclosed location.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI tried to contact her when I got to the house and found it empty. I sent her an email on that same day and she replied that she had gone to her father\u2019s house in Enugu.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cShe told me she was at her father\u2019s place in Enugu and four days later, I saw her at the airport in Lagos, heading to God knows where. In the mail she sent, she said she was in Enugu.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ikeagwu also debunked the claim that he sent his wife and kids out of the house and failed to provide for their upkeep.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The actor further told the court that his wife denied him sex and also poured water on him while he was asleep.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The petitioner also said he was not aware that his wife lost a pregnancy due to a Sexually Transmitted Infection while they were together.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cAfter the birth of our son, she has refused to have sex with me. I was not aware she lost the pregnancy due to an infection as I did not give her any infection.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cTill date, I have not seen any report attached to a document that she lost a baby through STD. Though I did not ask her why she lost the baby,\u201d he said.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ikeagwu said he stopped sending money to the children for upkeep and maintenance because his wife denied him being the father to his stepdaughter.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He added that this was after she accused him of attempting to sleep with the child and she failed to acknowledge the money he sent to her.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cThe last time I sent money to them was in November 2021. I stopped sending money because my wife denied me being a father to my step-daughter and she also accused me of wanting to sleep with her,\u201d the actor said.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Justice Christopher Balogun had earlier ordered the children to play with their father in court and ordered the respondent to present the receipts of the tuition fees for the children in court.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Balogun said: \u201cAccording to the Child\u2019s Right Act, you can not deny the children the best education even if you\u2019re quarreling with your wife.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cIf I should as a judgment grant you a divorce, and if your wife is in Enugu and you stay in Lagos, why should I give the custody of a 10-year-old girl to you while her mother is alive?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cThe Supreme Court ruled that it is not the wealth of a father that the children of that age need, they need the care and attention of their biological mother.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cThe only reason the girl child should not be in the custody of the mother is if the mother is mentally derailed or the issue of infidelity is involved.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cAssuming the girl starts her monthly period, you as a father do not know what to do. You will be scared of the blood. A female girl is delicate. Your own case is worse because an accusation has been leveled against you,\u201d he said.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The judge adjourned the case until June 23 for a continuation of the hearing. (NAN)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>CERTAINLY, Good journalism costs a lot of money. Without doubt, only good journalism can ensure the possibility of a good society, an accountable democracy, and a transparent government. 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